rin

Actually i just want to know about Moon Speakers opinions about honest love should be. Just write the way you think about honest love from your point of view.

私は私が行くことを目的としたものがなかったでしょおが、私は私があることを目的としたものが終わったと思 います。

Ugetsu

Hard question. I think that if you always tell every particle of the truth to your lover, you will probably cause pain. Part of "being nice" can include omitting a few things. But of course that gets controversial -- can you omit mentioning that you like someone else?? Certainly you can omit "your hair is a big mess today" or "what was WRONG with that crap you cooked for supper last night?"

I think couples learn what to expect from each other over time, and learn to say lots of positive things, and only the negative things that have to be dealt with...

routsubasa

I used to think it was about finding "the one" but a few relationships later its not even close. The One is a myth, a feeling you have for each real relationship you're in. "We all think our first kiss or our last, and our last kiss is our first."

I debated it being about "the one for right now" and living in the moment but that was a miserable situation in the end. You have to perceive a future with them in some way, not just the moment with them. When it's love, you cherish each moment anyways.

Now, I'm wiser and I realize it's a lot more to do with chemistry and compatibility. I'm not saying that location and realism don't matter but when the chemistrt is there and it all feels perfect or "right" then sometimes you should just roll with it
It's about the flow, riding the winds on a leaf or a stick in the water. Even better, Love is like tea. You can't force it with hot water or let it sit too long. You just have to work with that tea the way it is and how it will be. You can't force it to be what it isn't or more than it IA. You can't force love. You can only flow with it. Just learn when the rapids are going to crush you and when you're fighting the current dragging you away from where you know you should be. And remember, sometimes tides change and currents change direction. And sometimes, the tea just isn't for you. Find what works for you and only you.

Forgive any misspellings, please. I'm usually using my phone and between autocorrect hating me and general difficulties using a touch-screen keypad I may misspelled occasionally >_<

Dark Samus

I can hardly say something about it......Because, well........right now, there is nobody special to me, I had a relationship once, but It was more than friendship, but less than something else as I said before. I haven't found someone to love, or that person hasn't found me yet so I don't have any experience in "Love" afairs.....but I know what I'll feel when I found that person, and I know how it feels when your love is unrequited... but about the rest, that would be new for me, even if I'm in my middle 20's.

La Oscuridad en el Corazón es igual a la Luz en el Alma

Newnonimous

I may have never experienced love but i know enough how it affects people as i've witnessed it constantly. You would just feel the sensation from within your soul about another person you find very interesting or attractive. The connection humans share is of recognition among others. Yet it's been stretch by only lust and dominance over the period of time. Everyone always want someone that will except them for who they are, to love them and to share a bond that will not be broken, it can occur but in very rare cases. You will know one day what the meaning of true love is when you find someone.

I doubt there is anyone special to me, i'm not in a hurry for someone.

Armonía y discordia son arbitrarias, 無意味な概念...

routsubasa

We all need to be careful at times to discern what is Love and what is Infatuation. Infatuation is like a drug, you see this person and you are hooker, just wanting more even if it hurts you.

"If you love someone then you'll choose them over anything even if it hurts you, but if they truly love you and the relationship is real then they won't force you to make that decision, at least not alone."

Just remember, loving someone means that person is more than just special. It's not about wanting that person around for what they make you or what you make them, it's about what you become together as one. I lose track of that myself sometimes and it's why I left my last ex. Yes, I had feelings for her but I think it was more of a longing for that personal connection and when I realized we'd never be on the same level, I had to fall away. She made me feel like I could help her and she felt like she could rise up, but she shouldn't have to stand on my shoulders to reach her pedestal, we should both be able to step up together, you understand? It has to be a give and take on equal terms and when you see inequality enough you have to know when to step away and move on. Flow with the waters of the universe.

Forgive any misspellings, please. I'm usually using my phone and between autocorrect hating me and general difficulties using a touch-screen keypad I may misspelled occasionally >_<

rin

That's true Sensei..

Nice Samus..

Most of it is like that Newnonimous...

Sure you had Experience with love @Routsubasa..

At least right now, i know honest love mean is different to every individual. Correct me if i'm wrong, the way i look honest love is "love that don't demand you with anything"(maybe like you do it with your heart "honest" and you always want to give and less to take)..

私は私が行くことを目的としたものがなかったでしょおが、私は私があることを目的としたものが終わったと思 います。

routsubasa

If it's real love then you're both just giving with neither taking. It works out as a give and take that way naturally, in a sense, but with neither actively taking, just giving and receiving without want or need for it beyond what they have.

And I've had my time. Old bastards like me have seen plenty enough for long enough. XD Now, we're just full of ole-timer wisdom we hope someone else can use after we're gone. Makes it all seem like less of a waste.

Forgive any misspellings, please. I'm usually using my phone and between autocorrect hating me and general difficulties using a touch-screen keypad I may misspelled occasionally >_<

rin

it's nice ..true it is.
i'm asking this because i can't see right now honest love....and some just miss understanding about giving and taking...for most what i see is what you can give ...more is better..in material...
then when you out what to give your so called "honest love" gone too....
that's bad isn't it....

私は私が行くことを目的としたものがなかったでしょおが、私は私があることを目的としたものが終わったと思 います。

routsubasa

Love is beyond the concepts of matter. Yes, love can runout and hearts can be empty. But love can perpetuate and grow more love from itself. Love that grows is love between two people that is real and good.

"Love is like a wildfire. First, there's the quick burn that burst and grows fast, burns hot but eventually burns itself out pretty quick. Then, there's the slow burn. The kind like when the flames die down and out and you touch the ground and its still warm. One leaf blows over and unleashes it all over again."

That's a paraphrase from one of my favorite movies, Always. Great movie. You'd love it. But its real. There are times where you feel like love between your partner is mundane and nothing special, no spark. But then something happens and a moment occurs, whether on purpose or not, that brings all the passion right back to the surface.

Forgive any misspellings, please. I'm usually using my phone and between autocorrect hating me and general difficulties using a touch-screen keypad I may misspelled occasionally >_<